Going ahead with a new thread even though I'm sure most of this is discussed elsewhere. I came off suboxone end of Dec 2022; it was horrible but I did it. I'm happy to share what I did, but I don't know if I'd recommend it. I was on 4mg; I had some Tramadol which I took fo about a week and that did help a bit but it was overall a nightmare. I was also being prescribed Adderall by the same doc and I cut that off as well.
I was clean and slowly I started to feel better physically, but for the first time in my life I had real depression, just constantly exhausted, no motivation etc.. Slowly, all the pain that I didn't realize was being masked by it came back. I was taking subs since 2010 and when I came off I was (and am) 54. I had minor shoulder surgery in Feb and gave the rx to my wife and took it as prescribed. I got a refill that I didn't ask for and was't prepared for and ate it up over 4 days. I began going to NA (again), got a sponsor and told them all this.
That surgery was a help, but I still had wicked shoulder pain. By March my left arm was numb and tingly and I was in pain all the time. I didn't want to explore another surgery, but I think it was necessary. Since then, I've had legit scripts which I've taken as prescribed but I still feel like an addict. When I'm not using (which is a loaded term I understand, but for this addict, taking as prescribed seems just like using) I feel depressed and that's been compounded by the very real pain associated with my degenerated neck. I had surgery for that on June 22, it was pretty awful overall. Since the surgery I've been feeling like a strait up addict again. Getting and filling prescriptions, even though they are *legit*. Walking around with a neck brace like a guy trying to get on disability (which I'm not).
So specifics maybe will help here. I am prescribed 15mg norco every 6 hours and I took that as prescribed for the first 5 days after surgery. I asked for a refill. I took that as prescribed as well and that ran out today. Despite all the years of this bullshit, and all evidence to the contrary, I planned to stop and move on without pain and without any drugs. No, hydrocodone, no adderall, no clonazepam no nothing. My wife and son went to Chicago for the 4th; I didn't feel like I could go - doc said no long car trips.
So today I wake up, feeling bad, pain, sweaty, you know. I broke down and called for a refill which I got.
I can tolerate the pain, but I got a refill anyway. This refill will run out and I'm too afraid to get any elsewhere. I used to get them from a connect and online, but with the fentanyl now I'm afraid to do so. NA helps some, but most people I meet there, online anyway, have 30 years clean or are so far down that I can't relate. Also, you can't have a conversation there, you can share, or you can listen, but you can't have a back and forth. I'm hoping to find that here, that kind of support.
I'm home alone, sitting up and watching TV and I feel fine. But today was a real setback. I wasn't ready to just quit - I'm going to have to taper (again) and prepare (again) with immodium, advil, some sort of benzo (I think I have some valium around here) and HOLY SHIT I'M TOTALLY FUCKING BORED OF THIS SAME STORY FOR 13 YEARS NOW!!!!
I won't go back on suboxone, I won't. There is no plan to get off that. But shit, I'm tired of being a cliche.
Thanks for listening, please don't yell at me, I know all the mistakes I've made. I feel like I was almost out - I was clean after all. But I was miserable and I really had no idea it would take me upwards of six months to recover for suboxone and that's assuming no legit pain meds are necessary.
Arg.
I was clean and slowly I started to feel better physically, but for the first time in my life I had real depression, just constantly exhausted, no motivation etc.. Slowly, all the pain that I didn't realize was being masked by it came back. I was taking subs since 2010 and when I came off I was (and am) 54. I had minor shoulder surgery in Feb and gave the rx to my wife and took it as prescribed. I got a refill that I didn't ask for and was't prepared for and ate it up over 4 days. I began going to NA (again), got a sponsor and told them all this.
That surgery was a help, but I still had wicked shoulder pain. By March my left arm was numb and tingly and I was in pain all the time. I didn't want to explore another surgery, but I think it was necessary. Since then, I've had legit scripts which I've taken as prescribed but I still feel like an addict. When I'm not using (which is a loaded term I understand, but for this addict, taking as prescribed seems just like using) I feel depressed and that's been compounded by the very real pain associated with my degenerated neck. I had surgery for that on June 22, it was pretty awful overall. Since the surgery I've been feeling like a strait up addict again. Getting and filling prescriptions, even though they are *legit*. Walking around with a neck brace like a guy trying to get on disability (which I'm not).
So specifics maybe will help here. I am prescribed 15mg norco every 6 hours and I took that as prescribed for the first 5 days after surgery. I asked for a refill. I took that as prescribed as well and that ran out today. Despite all the years of this bullshit, and all evidence to the contrary, I planned to stop and move on without pain and without any drugs. No, hydrocodone, no adderall, no clonazepam no nothing. My wife and son went to Chicago for the 4th; I didn't feel like I could go - doc said no long car trips.
So today I wake up, feeling bad, pain, sweaty, you know. I broke down and called for a refill which I got.
I can tolerate the pain, but I got a refill anyway. This refill will run out and I'm too afraid to get any elsewhere. I used to get them from a connect and online, but with the fentanyl now I'm afraid to do so. NA helps some, but most people I meet there, online anyway, have 30 years clean or are so far down that I can't relate. Also, you can't have a conversation there, you can share, or you can listen, but you can't have a back and forth. I'm hoping to find that here, that kind of support.
I'm home alone, sitting up and watching TV and I feel fine. But today was a real setback. I wasn't ready to just quit - I'm going to have to taper (again) and prepare (again) with immodium, advil, some sort of benzo (I think I have some valium around here) and HOLY SHIT I'M TOTALLY FUCKING BORED OF THIS SAME STORY FOR 13 YEARS NOW!!!!
I won't go back on suboxone, I won't. There is no plan to get off that. But shit, I'm tired of being a cliche.
Thanks for listening, please don't yell at me, I know all the mistakes I've made. I feel like I was almost out - I was clean after all. But I was miserable and I really had no idea it would take me upwards of six months to recover for suboxone and that's assuming no legit pain meds are necessary.
Arg.