Not everybody is as gifted as December Flower. In other times learning was easy, almost free for me but a breakup followed by a 4 year drug binge reinforced my ADHD. I'm nervous all the time while sober and have difficulties remembering stuff.
Oh I'm far from gifted, however thanks for thinking so.
I refuse to believe languages are hard to learn for anyone. Or learning anything for that matter
Learning always has something to do with wanting to learn.
If you don't want to learn, you're not going to, it's as easy as that.
Your consciousness and sub-consciousness are in contact all the time.
If you sit down with a book and think to yourself "this sucks. i don't want to learn now, i'd much rather pleasure myself sexually", then you're not going to learn a thing, because your brain thinks you don't want to learn this. You need to properly communicate with your brain.
It's best if you get excited from learning. I don't know how it is for NTs, but me as an Aspie I get super excited from information, literally floods of dopamine. New info can feel better than sex, and that's exactly the state you need to be in to retain information for as long as possible. If that's impossible for you, you need to at least be in a state where you can get excited about learning new things.
You need to be determined to learn the language, determined to learn grammar lessons for hours on end, determined to really dive into the language and surround yourself with it. You're not going to learn shit if you do it for an hour once a week, you could just as well feed imaginary ducks. If all you want to do is be able to say "hello" "how are you" "good bye" and so on, you might make enough progress once a week, but not if you want to learn the language well enough to have conversations in it.
I mean i've done this shit over and over, I know what I'm talking about. I was terrible at languages back in school(except English - English I was bad til grade 7, had English classes since grade 2), because French and Latin just didn't interest me much. Still hate Latin. Fuck you, Romans, with your unnecessarily complicated sentence structure. I first really learned French in France, and that will never go away, it's just lodged in my brain. Same for Spanish and Spain, learned all I know over there. We often didn't even allow each other to speak German, because that would just result in laziness(xept for the period where we missed home so much that we started speaking Bavarian, even though we usually talked in High German) we spoke the language of the country we were in, even to each other, and it helped so so much. You can't have "the easy way out" with languages, or you'll never learn anything. The people in Spain even offered speaking English, over and over, but aside from their English being
terrible we just wanted to learn Spanish. You need people who respect that, because once you start speaking English or your native tongue, you're going to opt for that in the future as well
and yeah, as long as you don't try learning German, you will be very successful with that technique. Just surround yourself with the language. If you can't travel there, watch cartoons in the language with subtitles. First subtitles in your language, then subtitles in the language they're speaking. That's how I learned English, and it worked like a charm. I was a D to E student in English til 7th grade, then I started watching the Simpsons and South Park in English, was recommended to me, and by grade 8 i was a straight A student and never had another grade than an A again.